Fall Lecture Series – Butler Director Louis Zona
Butler Institute of American Art 524 Wick Ave., YoungstownLas Vegas Live! Christmas Revue
Best Western Plus Dutch Haus Inn & Suites 150 East State Route 14, ColumbianaThe Day They Shot John Lennon – The Youngstown Playhouse
The Youngstown Playhouse 600 Playhouse Lane, YoungstownElegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Canfield Fairgrounds 7265 Columbiana-Canfield Rd., CanfieldWeek of Events
National Child’s Day
November 20th each year recognizes National Child’s Day and all the potential represented by our children’s ambitions, dreams, and goals. Through educational goals, STEAM projects, and academic missions, educators and families join forces to provide an excellence at all levels of education. #NationalChildsDay Education begins at home, and by providing parents with resources vital to
National Gingerbread Cookie Day
National Gingerbread Cookie Day on November 21st encourages us to grab the rolling pin and cookie cutters. The baking will warm the home and decorating will inspire us to design tasty cookies while making memories! HealthyLiving: Healthy Traditional Thanksgiving Recipes for the Family #GingerbreadCookieDay National Gingerbread Day takes place on June 5th. A favorite food of
National Day of Mourning
Each year on the fourth Thursday in November recognizes the National Day of Mourning. The observance is an opportunity to reflect on Native American heritage and the role Thanksgiving played in the lives of their ancestors. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); #NationalDayOfMourning The organizers of this observance consider Thanksgiving Day as a continued reminder of
Thanksgiving Day
Thanksgiving Day is observed each year in the United States on the fourth Thursday in November. The observance is a time when families and friends gather and give thanks for many reasons, each often as different as each person who gathers around the table. https://spanningtheneed.com/2022/11/21/the-hidden-christmas-gem-in-the-valley-kraynaks-christmasland-still-bringing-joy-to-young-and-old-alike/ #ThanksgivingDay In 1621, the Plymouth colonists and Wampanoag Indians shared
National Play Day with Dad
On November 25th, National Play Day With Dad encourages fathers to spend the day focused on fun with their kids. It’s a day designed for bonding and memories. The Hidden Christmas Gem in the Valley: Kraynak’s Christmasland still bringing joy to young and old alike #PlayDayWithDad A dad play day allows the children of fathers
Native American Heritage Day
National Native American Heritage Day on the day after Thanksgiving honors American Indians across the nation. The day celebrates the vibrant cultures, traditions, and heritages while recognizing Native Americans’ many contributions. When and Where will Frosty/Rudolph be on TV this Christmas Season? #NativeAmericanHeritageDay The day encourages listening to Native American voices and fostering pride in
Black Friday: Shopping
In the United States, the day after Thanksgiving has become known as Black Friday and is considered the official kick-off for holiday shopping. Retailers across the country slash prices, offer doorbuster deals on popular big-ticket items, and often open in the wee hours of the morning to extend early bird specials. Dedicated and thrifty shoppers
Small Business Saturday
Small Business Saturday reminds us of the prime shopping opportunities right in our own communities. Not only do the small businesses where we work, live, and play offer numerous gift-giving possibilities, they are hands-on and ready to complete your shopping list with quality, thoughtful gifts. https://spanningtheneed.com/2022/11/21/the-hidden-christmas-gem-in-the-valley-kraynaks-christmasland-still-bringing-joy-to-young-and-old-alike/ #SmallBusinessSaturday Every year on the Saturday after Thanksgiving, the
Winter Gift Barn
Winter Gift Barn
The Winter Gift Barn returns at White House Fruit Farm with all of your holiday favorites! Enjoy shopping for Christmas decor, family gifts, children’s toys, hostess gifts, and so much more. Coze Coffee bar is open in the Gift Barn with coffees, hot chocolates & hot cider. Winter Gift Barn hours are Friday, Saturday &
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
The Arms Family Museum is sparkling for the holiday season! The 14th Memories of Christmas Past exhibit will open on Saturday, November 19, 2022 and be on display through Saturday, December 31, 2022. The Mahoning Valley Historical Society will be bringing its beloved family tradition of the holiday season to each of the main floor’s
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
FaLaLa – Ward Bakery Market
FaLaLa – Ward Bakery Market
FaLaLa at the Ward Bakery Market will be held on Saturday, November 19; Sunday, November 20; Saturday, November 26; and Sunday, November 27 from 12:00pm-5:00pm. The event will feature painting, jewelry, sculpture, pottery, fiber art, soap, mixed media, drawing, printmaking, photography, digital art, records and tapes, custom woodwork and vintage furniture and accessories. Participating Youngstown
Fall Lecture Series – Butler Director Louis Zona
Fall Lecture Series – Butler Director Louis Zona
Join Dr. Louis Zona for these free Sunday afternoon talks at 2:00pm in Zona Auditorium on the first floor of The Butler Institute of American Art’s Beecher Center. Seating is limited. September 25 – American Realism: From Homer to Chuck Close October 2 – Neo Dada: Merce Cunningham, John Cage, Robert Rauschenberg, and Jasper Johns
Las Vegas Live! Christmas Revue
Las Vegas Live! Christmas Revue
An electrifying Las-Vegas-Style Christmas show. Singing sensation Nick Costa brings his live 10-piece swinging show band to back his performance of your favorite Christmas songs, as well as the top hits of some of the most legendary Las Vegas singers like Elvis Presley, Tom Jones, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Wayne Newton, Sammy Davis Jr, Englebert
The Day They Shot John Lennon – The Youngstown Playhouse
The Day They Shot John Lennon – The Youngstown Playhouse
The Youngstown Playhouse presents The Day They Shot John Lennon in the Moyer Room, November 11-20, 2022. Written by James McLure, The Day They Shot John Lennon is a powerful story reliving the day The Beatles songwriter and musician, John Lennon, was assassinated. A group of strangers meet at the location of his murder to
Masterworks: A Journey Serene
Masterworks: A Journey Serene
Experience a serene musical journey performed by the Youngstown Symphony Orchestra on Sunday, November 20, at 2:30pm in the Concert Hall at Stambaugh Auditorium. The deep colors and calm breeze of harvest time create sensations of peace felt through Libby Larsen’s Deep Summer Music. A journey in itself Mahler’s Lieder eines Fahrenden Gesellen (Songs of a
Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve
Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve
Multi-platinum, progressive rock group Trans-Siberian Orchestra (TSO) returns to the Covelli Centre on November 20 with their highly anticipated 2022 winter tour, The Ghosts of Christmas Eve – the Best of TSO & More presented by Hallmark Channel. After its first year off the road in more than two decades, TSO made a triumphant return
Joy of Christmas Light Display
Joy of Christmas Light Display
The Joy of Christmas drive-through holiday light display features more than one million lights in 80+ holiday scenes. Hours for the 2022 season will be Thursday-Sunday, November 17-20, 24-27, and December 1-4, 6-9pm. Open nightly December 8-31, 6-9pm. CASH ONLY AT THE GATE: Donation $20/car, $3/person passenger van & motor coach/bus, $40 seasonal pass (limited
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Christmas Lighting is proud to bring back the holiday light drive through experience to the Canfield Fairgrounds. This event features LED displays, the latest in animatronics and over 50 holiday scene displays. The event will run Thursdays-Sundays, November 17-January 1, 2023, from 6:00pm-10:00pm. Ticket prices are Cars/Trucks/SUV’s/Vans $25, Limo/Party Buses $50, and Tour Buses
A Motown Christmas
A Motown Christmas
A Motown Christmas features a world-class vocal group, assembled from past and present members of Motown’s most legendary groups such as The Temptations, The Miracles and The Contours. Don’t miss this holiday spectacular on Sunday, November 20 at 7:30pm at the DeYor Performing Arts Center. A Motown Christmas is a powerful family-oriented show combining Motown’s
When I Think of Christmas-Christmas Movie
When I Think of Christmas-Christmas Movie
Stars: Shenae Grimes-Beech, Niall Matter, Beth Broderick Premiere date: Sunday, November 20 Synopsis: Sara Thompson returns to her hometown to help her mother move and is surprised to find her ex-boyfriend Josh Hartman is back home. The two had once planned a life in music together but Sara left to study law. The former flames slowly reconnect and
Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve
Trans-Siberian Orchestra: Ghosts of Christmas Eve
Multi-platinum, progressive rock group Trans-Siberian Orchestra (TSO) returns to the Covelli Centre on November 20 with their highly anticipated 2022 winter tour, The Ghosts of Christmas Eve – the Best of TSO & More presented by Hallmark Channel. After its first year off the road in more than two decades, TSO made a triumphant return
Winter Gift Barn
Winter Gift Barn
The Winter Gift Barn returns at White House Fruit Farm with all of your holiday favorites! Enjoy shopping for Christmas decor, family gifts, children’s toys, hostess gifts, and so much more. Coze Coffee bar is open in the Gift Barn with coffees, hot chocolates & hot cider. Winter Gift Barn hours are Friday, Saturday &
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
The Arms Family Museum is sparkling for the holiday season! The 14th Memories of Christmas Past exhibit will open on Saturday, November 19, 2022 and be on display through Saturday, December 31, 2022. The Mahoning Valley Historical Society will be bringing its beloved family tradition of the holiday season to each of the main floor’s
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
The Arms Family Museum is sparkling for the holiday season! The 14th Memories of Christmas Past exhibit will open on Saturday, November 19, 2022 and be on display through Saturday, December 31, 2022. The Mahoning Valley Historical Society will be bringing its beloved family tradition of the holiday season to each of the main floor’s
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
Joy of Christmas Light Display
Joy of Christmas Light Display
The Joy of Christmas drive-through holiday light display features more than one million lights in 80+ holiday scenes. Hours for the 2022 season will be Thursday-Sunday, November 17-20, 24-27, and December 1-4, 6-9pm. Open nightly December 8-31, 6-9pm. CASH ONLY AT THE GATE: Donation $20/car, $3/person passenger van & motor coach/bus, $40 seasonal pass (limited
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Christmas Lighting is proud to bring back the holiday light drive through experience to the Canfield Fairgrounds. This event features LED displays, the latest in animatronics and over 50 holiday scene displays. The event will run Thursdays-Sundays, November 17-January 1, 2023. Hours are Thursday-Saturday 6:00pm-10:00pm, and Sunday 6:00pm-9:00pm. Ticket prices are Cars/Trucks/SUV’s/Vans $25, Limo/Party
My Southern Family Christmas-Christmas Movie
My Southern Family Christmas-Christmas Movie
Stars: Jaicy Elliot, Bruce Campbell, Ryan Rottman, Moira Kelly, Brian McNamara Premiere date: Thursday, November 24 Synopsis: Under the guise of a journalist, Campbell has a chance to get to know her biological father for the first time – without him ever knowing who she really is. As she spends time with him and his family, as well
Black Friday – Southern Park Mall
Black Friday – Southern Park Mall
Southern Park is kicking-off Black Friday at 6:00am on Friday, November 25. The first 500 guests that enter through the doors in the DeBartolo Commons Concourse will receive a swag bag. Swag bags will consist of several different prizes like coffee mugs, hand sanitizers, t-shirts, sweatshirts, gift cards to Southern Park Mall stores and coupons.
Winter Gift Barn
Winter Gift Barn
The Winter Gift Barn returns at White House Fruit Farm with all of your holiday favorites! Enjoy shopping for Christmas decor, family gifts, children’s toys, hostess gifts, and so much more. Coze Coffee bar is open in the Gift Barn with coffees, hot chocolates & hot cider. Winter Gift Barn hours are Friday, Saturday &
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
The Arms Family Museum is sparkling for the holiday season! The 14th Memories of Christmas Past exhibit will open on Saturday, November 19, 2022 and be on display through Saturday, December 31, 2022. The Mahoning Valley Historical Society will be bringing its beloved family tradition of the holiday season to each of the main floor’s
Ice Skating Rink – Jewish Community Center
Ice Skating Rink – Jewish Community Center
The Winter Campus at the Jewish Community Center of Youngstown opens November 25, 2022. Skating will be free and open to the community on the JCC’s rink and curling lane until January 1, 2023. Hours are from 4:00pm-8:00pm Thursdays and Fridays and 12:00pm-8:00pm Saturdays and Sundays. Skate rental is $3 for JCC members and $4
Joy of Christmas Light Display
Joy of Christmas Light Display
The Joy of Christmas drive-through holiday light display features more than one million lights in 80+ holiday scenes. Hours for the 2022 season will be Thursday-Sunday, November 17-20, 24-27, and December 1-4, 6-9pm. Open nightly December 8-31, 6-9pm. CASH ONLY AT THE GATE: Donation $20/car, $3/person passenger van & motor coach/bus, $40 seasonal pass (limited
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Christmas Lighting is proud to bring back the holiday light drive through experience to the Canfield Fairgrounds. This event features LED displays, the latest in animatronics and over 50 holiday scene displays. The event will run Thursdays-Sundays, November 17-January 1, 2023. Hours are Thursday-Saturday 6:00pm-10:00pm, and Sunday 6:00pm-9:00pm. Ticket prices are Cars/Trucks/SUV’s/Vans $25, Limo/Party
#Xmas-Christmas Movie
#Xmas-Christmas Movie
Stars: Clare Bowen, Brant Daugherty Premiere date: Friday, November 25 at 6/5c Synopsis: When Jen gets the chance to enter a brand’s design contest, she poses a family influencer, enlisting the help of her best friend, Max, and her baby nephew. When her video is selected as a finalist, Jen is torn on whether to go on with
Youngstown Phantoms – Cancer Awareness Night
Youngstown Phantoms – Cancer Awareness Night
The Youngstown Phantoms take on Team USA at the Covelli Centre on Friday, November 25 on Cancer Awareness Night. Puck drop is 7:05pm. Experience exciting USHL hockey. For tickets, call 330-747-PUCK (7825) or visit their website.
A Royal Corgi Christmas-Christmas Movie
A Royal Corgi Christmas-Christmas Movie
Stars: Hunter King, Jordan Renzo Premiere date: Friday, November 25 Synopsis: Reluctant Crown Prince Edmond returns home just before Christmas in anticipation of being named successor to the throne. To ingratiate himself to his mother the Queen, he gifts her with “Mistletoe”, a rambunctious Corgi in need of some serious training. After several doggy disasters, Edmond turns to
Christmas on the Farm – Molnar Farms
Christmas on the Farm – Molnar Farms
Join Molnar Farms to kick off the holiday season with local artisans featuring handmade items. Deck the halls, find one-of-a-kind gifts, and more! Christmas on the Farm will be held on Saturday, November 26 from 8:30am-5:00pm.
The Market – Southern Park Mall
The Market – Southern Park Mall
Come out and get your holiday shopping done with unique handmade crafts and your favorite direct sales products! The Market at Southern Park Mall will be held on Saturday, November 26 from 9:00am-9:00pm and on Sunday, November 27 from 11:00am-6:00pm.
Winter Gift Barn
Winter Gift Barn
The Winter Gift Barn returns at White House Fruit Farm with all of your holiday favorites! Enjoy shopping for Christmas decor, family gifts, children’s toys, hostess gifts, and so much more. Coze Coffee bar is open in the Gift Barn with coffees, hot chocolates & hot cider. Winter Gift Barn hours are Friday, Saturday &
Winter Greenery Sale – Youngstown CityScape
Winter Greenery Sale – Youngstown CityScape
Youngstown CityScape invites you to their second annual Winter Greenery Sale on Saturday, November 26 from 10:00am-3:00pm, and Thursday December 1 & Saturday December 3, from 9:00am-4:00pm at their greenhouse location, CityScape at Briel’s, 23-26 S. Belle Vista Avenue, Youngstown. Last year many items sold out, so they strongly suggest that you pre-order to ensure
Meet with Santa
Meet with Santa
Join The Public Library of Youngstown & Mahoning County for a holiday story time and take your picture with Santa and his reindeer! Register for one of the three time slots available at the Boardman location on Saturday, November 26 (10:00am-11:00am, 11:00am-12:00pm, or 12:00pm-1:00pm). Visit their website to register. Don’t forget your camera!
Pictures with Santa
Pictures with Santa
Join Southern Park Mall for their Santa Experience. Santa will be at his house in Center Court ready to hear children’s wishes for this Christmas season. Families are invited to visit Santa from November 18 – December 24 to capture holiday moments that you’ll treasure forever! Hours are Monday-Saturday 11:00am-7:00pm and Sunday 12:00pm-6:00pm. Hours Christmas Eve
Olde Fashioned Christmas at Lanterman’s Mill
Olde Fashioned Christmas at Lanterman’s Mill
Enjoy the traditional holiday atmosphere at Lanterman’s Mill. Fire-roasted chestnuts, artisans demonstrating crafts, unique handcrafted gifts for sale, and festive entertainment will lift your spirits. Santa will be visiting the mill on both days. Indulge in some tasty treats from two concession stands. To share the holiday spirit with others, bring a new hat, scarf
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
Memories of Christmas Past 2022
The Arms Family Museum is sparkling for the holiday season! The 14th Memories of Christmas Past exhibit will open on Saturday, November 19, 2022 and be on display through Saturday, December 31, 2022. The Mahoning Valley Historical Society will be bringing its beloved family tradition of the holiday season to each of the main floor’s
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
The Rink – DeBartolo Commons
Ice skating at DeBartolo Commons is here for the holiday season! The Rink will be open starting on November 15 through January 15, 2023. The cost to skate at The Rink is $12 for adults and $10 for kids; guests can bring their own skates or rent for $4. The Rink Hours of Operation: Monday
FaLaLa – Ward Bakery Market
FaLaLa – Ward Bakery Market
FaLaLa at the Ward Bakery Market will be held on Saturday, November 19; Sunday, November 20; Saturday, November 26; and Sunday, November 27 from 12:00pm-5:00pm. The event will feature painting, jewelry, sculpture, pottery, fiber art, soap, mixed media, drawing, printmaking, photography, digital art, records and tapes, custom woodwork and vintage furniture and accessories. Participating Youngstown
Ice Skating Rink – Jewish Community Center
Ice Skating Rink – Jewish Community Center
The Winter Campus at the Jewish Community Center of Youngstown opens November 25, 2022. Skating will be free and open to the community on the JCC’s rink and curling lane until January 1, 2023. Hours are from 4:00pm-8:00pm Thursdays and Fridays and 12:00pm-8:00pm Saturdays and Sundays. Skate rental is $3 for JCC members and $4
A Tale of Two Christmases-Christmas Movie
A Tale of Two Christmases-Christmas Movie
Stars: Kat Barrell, Chandler Massey, Evan Roderick Premiere date: Saturday, November 26 at 6/5c Synopsis: Thanks to some Christmas magic, Emma gets to experience two different Christmases – one where she stays in the city and celebrates with a new crush and his friends, and one where she returns home for all the traditions with her family…and Drew,
Joy of Christmas Light Display
Joy of Christmas Light Display
The Joy of Christmas drive-through holiday light display features more than one million lights in 80+ holiday scenes. Hours for the 2022 season will be Thursday-Sunday, November 17-20, 24-27, and December 1-4, 6-9pm. Open nightly December 8-31, 6-9pm. CASH ONLY AT THE GATE: Donation $20/car, $3/person passenger van & motor coach/bus, $40 seasonal pass (limited
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Illusions Christmas Lights Drive-Through
Elegant Christmas Lighting is proud to bring back the holiday light drive through experience to the Canfield Fairgrounds. This event features LED displays, the latest in animatronics and over 50 holiday scene displays. The event will run Thursdays-Sundays, November 17-January 1, 2023. Hours are Thursday-Saturday 6:00pm-10:00pm, and Sunday 6:00pm-9:00pm. Ticket prices are Cars/Trucks/SUV’s/Vans $25, Limo/Party
Youngstown Phantoms vs. Team USA
Youngstown Phantoms vs. Team USA
The Youngstown Phantoms take on Team USA at the Covelli Centre on Saturday, November 26. Puck drop is 7:05pm. Experience exciting USHL hockey. For tickets, call 330-747-PUCK (7825) or visit their website.
Haul Out the Holly-Christmas Movie
Haul Out the Holly-Christmas Movie
Stars: Lacey Chabert, Wes Brown, Ellen Travolta, Peter Jacobson, Melissa Peterman, Stephen Tobolowsky Premiere date: Saturday, November 26 Synopsis: Emily arrives home, hoping to visit her parents, only to discover that they are leaving on a trip of their own. As she stays at their house for the holidays, their HOA is determined to get Emily to participate